Anyone living out West has had a week of comfort food weather! Here in Phoenix we had as much rain in a week as we normally get in a year. I haven't felt like venturing out, and I want foods that warm me from the inside out.
And that has had me thinking about leeks.
Leeks are the onion's, unfortunately less popular and often forgotten, cousin. I say that because leeks are milder than onions, with a lot of the same health benefits. Many of those benefits are related to PCOS health risks.
Vegetables in the onion/leek/garlic family help to: --reduce LDL cholesterol and raise HDL cholesterol --lower blood pressure --reduce risk of ovarian cancer --stabilize blood glucose
Most of you probably think of leeks in leek potato soup…but there are so many more ways to cook them! Here's a great feature from Cooking Light to get you started.
Something that struck me very early on working with PCOS was how often I heard,"Just tell me what to do." It was clear that a big part of the problem women asking for help was having was feeling out of control. In every other part of their lives, it seemed, they'd been rewarded for hard work and diligence.
PCOS just doesn't work that way.
And when the solution isn't always about DOING something to fix the problem, you can feel completely out of control…tied down…trapped…
For a problem solving personality, a doer, this can leave you feeling completely stressed.
Research has actually studied this phenomenon, it's called"restraint stress."
Restraint stress is any kind of condition that leaves you feeling as if nothing you do can alleviate your discomfort, as if you are destined to live with your situation without any relief. It is the most damaging kind of stress, as it is the kind of stress that best elevates blood pressure, blood glucose, and cholesterol, interferes with sleep…
…can you see where this is going? Not only are you living with a seemingly unsolvable problem, but how you perceive that problem has the power to worsen that problem completely.
Sometimes what I see, is that a person focuses so completely on the problem that they perceive, that they lose perspective with regard to just what they CAN control.
They CAN make healthy food choices. They CAN be more physically active. They CAN set boundaries with people and limit their stress. They CAN surround themselves with positive, supportive people. They CAN turn the computer off and engage in activities other than surfing and reading about the problem. They CAN be kind to themselves.
I find that those clients who are most creative at finding ways to repaint their picture, are the ones with the best chance of succeeding in the long run.
It's ironic, but then PCOS is ironic.
Stop focusing on the problem, stop thinking of yourself as an unfixable pathology, start believing you are a whole person with many talents and ideas to contribute to making our planet a great home…and all of a sudden things that felt so elusive start showing up when you least expect it.
It was 1975, and my father had a powder blue polyester double-knit “leisure suit,” a weight-loss plan disguised as a plan to single-handedly re-roof our house, and a keen interest in alternative nutrition and well-being. The latter took the form of upside-down eating, in which we had our smallest meal at dinner and our largest meal at breakfast. My friends thought it was very strange that we ate steaks and pork chops for breakfast, along with huge salads.
We were also eating texturized soy protein, roughly ground grains made into coarse earthy breads, spoonfuls of lecithin, mung bean sprouts, and a whole lot of strange things that you could only get out of the bulk food barrels at Elliot’s Natural Foods. We had a copy of “The Whole Earth Catalog” on the coffee table, and there was also a well-worn copy of my dad’s new bible, Adelle Davis’ “Let’s Eat Right to Get Fit.” There was some new thinking going on in this middle-aged straight-laced German guy, and I was curious about it. Extremely curious. I read the books, and ate whatever weird stuff I was supposed to be eating.
Things got even more curious when my father signed the entire family up to learn Transcendental Meditation (TM), which was developed by the Mahareshi Mahesh Yogi in the 1950s. Although it started elsewhere, by the 1970s, it had penetrated as far as “The Big Tomato,” my hometown of Sacramento, California. He went to a couple of introductory lectures, and the next thing we knew, all five of us were learning TM! It sure seemed exotic at the time, but it’s a technique I have practiced off on and on for over three decades. It’s so simple, I find it the easiest place to return to when I’m most stressed.
TM is a mantra-based meditation technique that has been scientifically validated for stress reduction, blood pressure reduction and, most recently management of the symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress in veterans. The National Institute of Health has spent in excess of $20 million validating the benefits of TM. It increases mental clarity, creativity, and overall health, and decreases stress by decreasing the activation of the sympathetic nervous system. When the sympathetic nervous system’s activity decreases, so do adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisol levels. Therefore, it is quite effective for stabilizing mood and even controlling appetite, because your appetite tends to go out of control when you’re feeling stressed.
Technically, it must be taught through an authorized trainer (see www.tm.org), but a great deal of introductory information can be gleaned online. I’ve written previously here about the benefits of meditation, and I’d love to introduce you to this technique.
Simply sit quietly and comfortably. This is essential to all forms of meditation. The mantra would be assigned by your teacher, but you can choose a syllable or sound with no inherent meaning (other forms of meditation might focus on a word with a meaning, such as “love” or “peace.”). The act of focusing on the mantra draws your mind out of its normal state of anxiety, chatter, and activity. If your mind drifts, return your attention to the mantra gently and repeatedly, for a period of 20 minutes per day. Results have been verified with as little as eight weeks of consistent daily practice. Optimally, practicing twice a day for twenty minutes each time is the goal, but benefits can be derived from as little as five minutes a day.
Gretchen Kubacky, Psy.D. is a Health Psychologist in private practice in West Los Angeles, California. She specializes in counseling women and couples who are coping with infertility, PCOS, and related endocrine disorders and chronic illnesses. If you would like to learn more about Dr. HOUSE or her practice, or obtain referrals in the Los Angeles area, please visit her website at www.drhousemd.com, or e-mail her at Gretchen@drhousemd.com. You can also follow her on Twitter @askdrhousemd
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